Well, yesterday, I had a short game of badminton with my cousins and brother. Yeah yeah, I think it's nice to have the 3 of us staying in the same room, because they can be so lame until I just keep laughing. And there are always nice stories to listen to. :D
Oh, based on Minhui's blog entry, so coincidentally, the other day I was telling Jeff about the reason for liking a person. Hmm. Unlike mh, last time I used to think that there is no reason for liking a person. Whatever the person is, you will like his good points and not-so-good points (it is mean to say bad points lar. lol). That is, you will accept him for who he is. Up till now, I still feel that loving someone is to accept who he/she is, but there is a reason for loving this particular person. However, it is not neccessary that everyone knows the reason of loving someone.
Let me give you a scenerio. Boy A and Boy B. They are twins. By right, they have the same features, same family background, same living environment. To make it easier, we will let this two boy stay in the same room, go to the same school, attend the same class. But by left, no matter how similar the external factor may be, we understand that they will be different based on the internal factor, which is the character or emotional issues of particular self. HURHUR.
So, the question is, why did you like Boy A but not Boy B? Or why did you like Boy B and not Boy A? There must be a particular reason to it. You may brush it off by saying, "Haiya, they are different mar. Twins also got difference one mar!" But what is the characteristics that differentiate the two of them? For example, Boy A could be more attentive to your needs than Boy B. This particular difference could be the reason you like either Boy A or Boy B.
Now, let's try another scenerio. This time round, Boy Y and Boy Z comes into picture. They are not twins, they do not have the same living environment and they are just total strangers. But you just happen to know both of them. And right now, you are fretting over who to choose. They have a vast difference in characters, one of them is intellectual and one of them is more musculine. but something similar in them is that they are both gentle. Then finally one day, you think you like Boy Z more. Why? You don't know. But the reason is very simple, because his gentleness suits you, but Boy Y's doesn't. Just that you didn't know. The amount of 'gentleness' that he 'supplies' you is the amount that you need, whereas Boy Y's could be too much, or too little. And that could be the reason why people can love a particular person to the core, even if she/he knows that their lover is the most irresponsible, not gentle or violent person among their other choices.
While I write until here, something to add on. Because we seldom analyse a person's character, that is why very often, we do not realise why we like that person. Therefore, we do not have an insight or analysis of his character, how gentle he is, how loving he is or how intellectual he is. And why do we see some people date people with different characters? Because they might have the same trait that the girl is looking for, or the different traits just simply meet her 'right amount'. So the conclusion is, I think liking or loving a person, there is a reason to it. You might not agree, but this is purely based on my own thoughts and understanding. (: And after saying so much, you might have no idea of what I am talking about. But it's okay, because I know I am not good in words. LOL.
Just now my colleague was telling me that she cannot work while her table is tidy. lol. As much as I wanted to have a neat table, you will see my table in a mess very often. LOL. Especially when invoices came, it's like a tornado swept through my territory. HURHUR.
And so, I helped Moulee to create a blog and she has yet to post any entry yet! (: And I think Moulee, Eric and I are moody these few days. LOL. I think this is a pretty long entry, prolly the longest in these two months. And I completed it amidst my work. LOL.
